This rule states that by dividing your own age by two and then adding seven you can find the socially acceptable minimum age of anyone you want to date. You live and learn and live and learn. The only problem I would see would be if he didn't have an education, had financial problems, canada or some drama in his life.
Although your point is well taken, age is not necessarily relevant, there seems to be an issue between old math and new math. As long as the guy is kind, treats you well etc, thats all that should matter. Should I confront her with her father there, too? If it helps you to get past the age difference, remember this guy was in his twenties a few months ago. Age preferences for mates as related to gender, own age, and involvement level.
They fret about their receding hairline and their ever-expanding waistlines. Be prepared to have that conversation earlier. She just needs to make sure she's treating him well. The best way to ease your mind would be to spend time with them both and see how they interact.
Honestly, I think it is a bit weird, but not wrong at all. But since she's working, she could presumably afford to rent a place, yes? Barrington Send a private message. As for parents who may kick her out of the house, this is a separate issue. Imo, you need to just let this play out.
He treats her very well and with a lot of respect and kindness. The best thing would be for her to really clarify her goals College? Nothing is for sure in life, and that you know.
Are any of these things relevant? Course depends on the chick. There will also be life style differences. And there is no strange life experience power-balance of any kind. One can only imagine that when they did make love, dating Miss Humphreys laid back and thought of the Bank of England.
As long as he follows Dan Savage's campsite rule and all that. ThisGal Send a private message. In our case, it worked out beautifully and things are pretty great with us. He, without any hesitation, cs go chose the former.
Incidentally, it's probably a lot healthier for her to not be living with your parents if she's choosing to live her life this way. He admits now that he himself was a bit concerned about the age difference. And even then, you need to remember that there's only so much you can to for someone else when romance is concerned, even if they're someone you love and feel protective of. Grooming Fragrances Hair Shaving Skin. This was a mutual decision, although they are both anxious to be public.
What are the bad things you think are going to happen here? And as for your sister still living at home - it's her parents house and she should live by their rules. Tao of Badass will supply you with the resources to make each woman in any room fall in deep love with you. Or she might get burned, like any other relationship. As long as we have similar interests, I don't see the problem.
One of the great things about being a year-old woman is getting to date year-old men as a counter to this - i found the closer a guy was to my age, the more disrespectful and crappy he was. Is marriage sometime in the next few years a possibility, or no? We both independently left this religion years ago for saner pastures. It sounds like this guy is great, so I'd say she should continue dating him while keeping her eyes open and figuring the rest of this stuff out. For what it's worth, when I started dating Mr.
Honestly, how do I'd be more worried about the possible repercussions of dipping the pen in company ink than anything else given the facts you've presented. Let them find out themselves when you introduce her to them. My biggest concern would be that he won't want to do what she wants to do since he has done it already. Him and I are on the same level and we work well together.
If you were a guy dating a nineteen year old girl, yeah, I'd say that's definitely pretty messed up. Doesn't that sound kinda strange? Because we were raised in a posoinous culture, I was trying to figure out what the common wisdom is about such age disparities. Are they matrimonial or merely sexual? Everyone's got a lot of growing up to do.
So if she considers living with your parents restrictive and harmful, or even if she'd just like some experience at managing her own bills, groceries, etc. His crepey skin stretched across his thin, boney face, his sun-damaged hand reached for her slender knee, his turkey neck wobbled in anticipation of a night of passion. He was focused on work and I was still in college. Are you sure you want to delete this answer?
The utility of this equation? Hi all, This is my first post and I need some advice on how to handle this situation. But it sounds like they're aware of those risks, too.
Any advice on how to handle the situation, and what she and I should do would be greatly appreciated! You guys either have never been with a girl or haven't dated much. Originally Posted by Damsbo.